9.29.2009

Very Special Visits

The last couple of weeks have been packed full of fun and adventure for our little family. We've had visits from Nana and Pops as well as Aunt Katherine, Uncle Jim, Jacob and Luke. Despite my not feeling well a couple of days and some rainy weather on top of that, we managed to get in a little sight seeing and fun.

Here is our whole crew at the Natural Bridge in Virginia.


The Webb Family at the Natural Bridge Caverns. (The boys did great! I was afraid they might get scared, but they were brave little adventurers!)


Jerry, Alex and I with Nana and Pops


Aunt Katherine and Alex



Nana, Pops and Alex on Mirabelle's front porch


Pops and Alex (We were walking one day and passed Pop's Soda Shop, and luckily Nana had her camera so she snapped this fun shot.)


Katherine and I at the overlook at Mill Mountain Star


Jerry and Jim at the Mill Mountain Star overlook


Jacob and Luke at the Pink Cadillac diner where we ate when we went to Natural Bridge (Don't let Luke's camera pose fool you - he had a great time!)



Katherine with the three boys


Many thanks to ALL of our visitors who've made the LONG trip to see us. We are so grateful for the time we got to spend with each of you. Love and hugs!

9.28.2009

Our Little Spelunker

Mommy: "Alex, do you want to go spelunking?"

Alex: "What?! Are you crazy? Isn't that like in a cave or something? And isn't it dark, cold and damp in there? With bats?!"


Mommy: "Well, yes. But Mommy and Daddy will be there to protect you. And Nana and Pops, too."



Alex: "I'm not so sure about this... Wait! What was that? Was that a bat I just saw? No-thank-you. I'm not so hot on this spelunking thing..."


(FYI...All captions are for dramatic purposes only. He really loved it!)

9.24.2009

TV Time

Alex took some time out of his busy day to enjoy a little Sesame Street from the Bumbo seat.


And here he is practicing working his remote control hand.

9.22.2009

My Son


"My son, my son, I divinely love him so
May Your soft summer breezes upon him blow

My son, my son, I divinely love him so
Protect him, Lord, wherever he may go

My son, my son, I divinely love him so
Help him make right decisions to and fro

My son, my son, I divinely love him so
Let him help others wherever he may go"


– Clarence A. Graham, Jr.

Strong Man

Little Man has become Strong Man. He can now hold his rattle in his hands for a few seconds. Yea, Alex!

9.18.2009

Rocket Man

Check out Alex in his new "Rocket Man" pjs.


And in the little Bumbo seat that our neighbor friend let us borrow. (He doesn't like the Bumbo too much so far. Maybe once he has a little better head control.)

Alex and his Daddy

Alex LOVES his Daddy! And Daddy LOVES his Alex!


And Momma loves both her guys!

9.16.2009

Ten Weeks

Little Man turns ten weeks old today. And he's more fun than ever!


I love that we're seeing a lot less fussing and a lot more smiles. Like most babies, Alex is happiest in the morning. But nowadays he's pretty content throughout the day and even the evening for the most part.


He still fights his sleep during the day. He'll fuss a little bit to let me know he's sleepy, and then it's best to put him down right away before he gets so tired that it's hard for him to go to sleep. As for night sleep, in the last couple of days he's started going longer stretches for the first part of the night. He'll eat around 7p or so and then go down right after that and sleep until 1a. I like seeing a six hour stretch in between feedings! After that it's every three hours for the next two feedings. But during the day he's starting to make a little more progress in stretching his feedings, too. He's been going 3.5 to 4 hours which is where we want to be headed. Hopefully longer stretches of night sleep in the wee morning hours are right behind this. He still uses his paci to go to sleep a lot of times, but that's about it. During his play time, he has become content without it.


Speaking of play time, Alex will sit in his swing or talk to his animals on the discovery mat for several minutes at a time now. He doesn't require quite as much attention from me like he used to so it has become easier to get some things done around the house. He also still likes to go outside or for a ride in his stroller. He's a big fan of the outdoors. And he's become quite the little trooper for outings during the day. I've even braved shopping for new clothes while I've had him in tow. (I won't go into the clothes subject on the blog - too depressing. Suffice it to say that I have my work cut out for me.)


Here are a few more things we're seeing these days...

• He's starting to discover his hands more. Not only does he suck on his fists, but he will occasionally rub his eyes when he's getting tired.

• He's got great eye contact and will follow an object if it moves. He's constantly studying his surroundings and still loves to look at ceilings and lights.

• He's starting to smile in response to a smile you give him. We don't see this all that often, but occasionally when you smile at him he'll smile back.

• He still doesn't like his tummy time. I've got to do better about giving him more of this! (On that note, let me just say that tough love is a lot harder than I thought it would be. That could be a whole blog posting in and of itself. Hmmm. I'll store that one away.)

• He takes his vitamins like a champ. This is only significant because those drops are the most foul smelling things you've ever encountered in your life. It pains me to give them to him because I think they must be disgusting, but he swallows them down like they're candy. I hope this doesn't change. We're considering ourselves lucky.

• He's starting to like his baths now. He still doesn't like when we get him out, but the bath itself isn't quite as dreadful as it was in the beginning.

• Unfortunately, we've moved to the stage where he spits up quite a bit. He reminds me of his friend Jackson. These days we change clothes less because of diaper leaks and more because of spit up going everywhere. This usually requires both Alex and I to change.

• He LOVES to stretch - especially after we take him out of his swaddle blanket. It's so cute to watch. He raises his little arms over his head with his fists clinched tight and arches his back with his legs curled under him. Precious, I tell ya!

• A couple of days ago I saw the first tears starting to form. Now THAT will break your heart!

• But let's end on something sweet. When Alex is sleepy, he'll put his head on my shoulder and cuddle up for a while. Oh, how I long for him to be a cuddler.

9.15.2009

Mirabelle Gets A Little Refreshing

I get the sense that most of you prefer to see photos and blog postings about Alex over Mirabelle. I understand. He is totally irresistable. =)

But Mirabelle is in a sense our first "baby." She has required just as much work as Alex. In fact, even more in some cases! And as we've continued to love her back to life, I enjoy making posts about her, too. Thought you might like to see a few before and afters of the front of the house.

Here she stands when she first went on the market in Spring 2008. We affectionately named the little tree on the left the "Cousin It" tree because it looked like Cousin It from Addams Family.


And when we first moved in in November 2008. Cousin It is still there, but you can't see it in this shot. Oh, and how about those silk mums in the flower pots on the sidewalk? Nice, huh?


And during the first major snow we experienced this winter. When Cousin It blossomed in the spring, she got a hair cut. And then we renamed her "Fry Guy." Do you remember the Fry Guy at McDonald's?


And at the end of August 2009 when my mom was here.


And here she is today. Cousin It/Fry Guy is gone. The brush on the right has been cleaned up and some new grass seeds were planted. And to celebrate the coming of fall, we've added a little color with real mums on the porch.

9.14.2009

Spa Day

Alex has a case of cradle cap and some dry skin. So we've been "treating" him to spa days.


He gets a "hot oil treatment" on his scalp. (Olive oil.)

Then a nice scalp massage. (Scrubbing with a baby hair brush.)

Followed by a "mud bath." (Aveeno baby oatmeal bath soak.)

And then we finish with a full-body relaxation massage. (Aveeno baby creamy moisturizer.)

The cradle cap appears to be getting better, so we'll keep at it until it's all gone.

Go, Noni, Go!

Noni! I woke up at 5:45 this morning pumped up to cheer you on at your first day of boot camp!


I was all ready to go with my sign and everything, but after I ate, my mommy put me back down to bed. I was not happy about that.


But that won't stop me. Go, Noni, Go! I know that you can smoke those other ladies.


That's right, ladies. My Noni rocks!

9.11.2009

A Few Happenings

Friday we went to see Daddy at his work for the first time. Alex was the hit of the show. He drew in all the ladies. =)


Alex is teetering between 0-3 mos and 3-6 mos in his clothing size. So we had to go and get him some new pjs that were a little longer for him. Noni will be happy to know that he's not squished into his old ones anymore. =)


Recently, Alex has discovered his fists. He sucks on his right fist quite a bit - and not just when he's hungry. He's really throwing me off because that was my signal that it was time to eat! Now I'm having to look for some of the other signs, too! =)


And we've been getting a lot of smiles. Let me just say that when you become a parent, you get sooooo excited about the milestones. Seriously. It's funny that you look forward to a smile. Or a coo. Or discovering fists. But you do. And the smiles have been my favorite milestone so far. People, these smiles just melt my heart... =)



Last weekend, Aunt Dana came to visit us from Dallas. Thank you for making the trip, Dana. Getting to spend time with you was like chicken soup for my soul. Make that a cupcake for my soul. I like those better. =)

9.09.2009

A Word of Advice

One of my girlfriends had a baby shower a few months ago. With the invitation, I received a blank piece of paper and a note that said to write the best parenting advice I could think of and bring the little pearl of wisdom to the shower so that it could be put into a book for my friend. I had nothing. I mean, who was I to be dishing out parenting advice?

I still don't have much to give seeing as how I've only had this gig for nine weeks. But one piece of advice that my friend Dana gave me is definitely one I'd pass along to first time moms I know: Don't compare yourself to other moms.



I've found myself doing that lately, and, I tell ya, nothing makes you question yourself more than looking at someone who seems to be doing it "better" than you. I quickly have to tell myself to snap out of it! There is not one formula for raising kids. And not every kid is the same. You have to do what you think is right for your family and your situation.

Ok, well now that that's in writing, I can come back here and give myself a little pep talk when I'm not following those words of wisdom. And remind myself: Alex is a happy baby. He's safe. And he's healthy. Be thankful and keep doing the best you can.

9.08.2009

Sammy and Alex - Two Months

September 8, 2009. Alex is two months old today. Every time I make one of these posts, I am amazed at how quickly the time flies. I know it's cliche. But it's so true.

Here's Alex with Sammy at 2 months. I was so excited that I managed to catch a little bit of a smile!


And for reference - Alex with Sammy at 1 month.


Alex with Sammy at 11 days.

9.07.2009

Visitors

Alex has had lots of visitors so far.

His Noni has come to see him - twice.


We also had visits from Evan, Zack and Janna - although I was in serious recovery mode, and I didn't get any pictures of them with Alex. =(

Then Aunt Sylba came to visit. (Sadly, I was still very much in recovery mode when she was here, too, so I didn't get any pictures of her with Alex either. Fortunately she snapped this one which I've stolen until we see her again and I can get some more!)


Then Ganny and Grandpa came to see us.



And Uncle Troy came for a visit when he brought Noni for her second visit.


This past weekend Aunt Dana came to see us.


And in a couple of weeks Nanna and Pops and Uncle Jim, Aunt Katherine, Jacob and Luke will come see us. We can't wait!

We appreciate everyone who's made the long journey. We know it's not an easy trip, and we have so enjoyed our time with all of you.